Gwen Stefani, the iconic voice behind No Doubt and a successful solo artist, recently addressed the swirling rumors regarding her relationship with country music star Blake Shelton. In an intimate conversation with Life & Style magazine, Stefani opened up about her feelings and the foundation of their relationship, putting to rest any speculations about a potential split between the two.
“You can say whatever you want to say about our relationship — I mean, a week ago we were getting divorced again or something,” remarked the singer-songwriter while discussing social media rumors.
Gwen mentioned, “It’s just lies. The truth is the truth, and we know what that is.” Elsewhere in the interview, the No Doubt crooner expressed her fear about her relationship with Blake which was the reason behind the creation of a duet they released in February, Purple Irises. “If someone comes along and tries to / Love you like I do / Don’t know what I’d do / Don’t want to lose you,” she sings in the song, later adding: “No, I never knew a love like this. Now we’re picking / Purple irises.”
Stefani, known for her vibrant personality and unique style, spoke candidly about the bond she shares with Shelton, emphasizing the depth of their connection. “When you’re in love and have truly aligned values, nobody can get to us,” she asserted, highlighting the resilience of their partnership against external pressures and rumors.
The interview also delved into Stefani’s creative process and how her personal life influences her music. She revealed that her recent duet with Shelton, “Purple Irises,” released in February, was born out of her own insecurities and reflections on their relationship. The song, according to Stefani, served as a medium to explore and express her feelings, underscoring the emotional depth that the couple shares.
Elaborating on why she wrote Purple Irises, Gwen pointed out, “I had been going through those times where you’re questioning: ‘Oh my gosh, am I just getting older? Am I cute?'”
“In my own relationship, even though I know the truth of what’s happening today, you still create drama in your own mind about your insecurities and what might happen. I was in that phase of the relationship with Blake and getting paranoid,” confessed the songwriter. Meanwhile, Gwen noted that Purple Irises “is a symbol of her strong bond with Blake”.
Having spent nearly a decade together, Stefani’s remarks painted a picture of a relationship that is not just romantic but deeply rooted in friendship and mutual respect. “The truth is I am in love with my best friend,” Stefani confessed, shedding light on the essence of their connection. She admitted to overthinking at times but ultimately recognized that the strength of their bond lies in their shared experiences and emotions.
Stefani’s approach to dealing with negative speculation is to focus on the authenticity and personal significance of her music. By channeling her feelings and thoughts into her songs, she finds a way to reinforce the bond with Shelton while also engaging with her audience on a deeply personal level.
“So that [negativity] would never penetrate just by me being vulnerable and sharing a song that I didn’t write for anybody else but myself and Blake,” Stefani concluded, emphasizing the protective layer their genuine love and understanding provide against external negativity.
Through her open and heartfelt discussion, Stefani not only quashed rumors about her relationship with Shelton but also offered a glimpse into the ways in which their love and shared life experiences continue to inspire her music. Her narrative is a testament to the power of love, friendship, and creative expression in navigating the complexities of life in the public eye.
