Jennifer Garner Urges Ben Affleck to Treat J.Lo with ‘Dignity’ Amid Divorce

Jennifer Garner is reportedly stepping in to hold her ex-husband Ben Affleck accountable for his behavior toward Jennifer Lopez during their high-profile divorce. Garner, who was married to Affleck from 2005 to 2018, is said to be urging him to handle the situation with more compassion and maturity, according to In Touch Weekly.

“Jen has a huge amount of sway with Ben these days, so she does feel quite obligated to police his behavior, particularly when it comes to the way he’s been treating J.Lo,” an insider shared. “He’s been so impatient with her and actually quite ungrateful, at least in Jen’s view.”

Affleck, 52, and Lopez, 55, finalized their divorce four months after Lopez filed in August 2024. The couple’s two-year marriage ended following a tumultuous summer marked by a prolonged separation and several public disputes.

Despite initially expressing a desire to approach their split amicably, tensions between the two reportedly escalated. “They both said they wanted to do it amicably and have even talked a good game about wanting to consciously uncouple,” the insider said. “But that plan seems to be out the window because they can’t agree on how to divide things up, which of course is affecting things.”

The divorce proceedings, which lasted over six months, were fraught with disagreements over property division and other matters, further straining the relationship. Efforts to maintain stability for their blended family were overshadowed by heated exchanges that spilled into the public eye.

Garner, who shares three children with Affleck, has remained a steady influence in his life post-divorce, often advocating for healthier dynamics. Her involvement in encouraging Affleck to adopt a more respectful approach reflects her commitment to fostering stability, especially for the sake of their children.

The high-profile split between Affleck and Lopez has garnered widespread attention, with fans and media closely following the aftermath of their relationship. Garner’s reported intervention highlights the ongoing complexities of maintaining dignity and respect in the midst of public personal struggles.