Why Ladies Have Thoughts Like Jealousy, Revenge and Competition?

“Man can hurt my body but a woman can scar my soul” is although an old saying truly fit on women. Whether at home, work places, schools, colleges and even at public places women are trying to defeat and knifed off other women. Making ridiculous judgments, back biting, jealousy, revenge and unhealthy competition with other women are common at home, in close relationships and work places.

Gone are the days, when we only used to hear about revengeful relationship between mother in law and daughter min law or competition between sisters in law. One has to fail and other has to succeed is a natural instinct of women.

Apart from close family relationships, if we look into the professional work places, it is a common perception and somehow true that women bosses are rude, malicious, emotionally unpredictable, backstabbing and irritable as compare to men bosses. A research shows that “95 percent of women felt undermined at some point in their career by other women and it is quite true. A woman can’t see other woman’s success and what she has obtain, why not me is the main reason why ladies have the thoughts like jealousy, revenge and competition.

Another main factor behind this is that women are not strong emotionally. They can’t see other woman to grow up or succeed in life before her. Even women primarily dress up and own nice but expensive things just to impress and underestimate other women. Why women have thoughts of jealousy, revenge and anger for others is just because they compare themselves with others. If, a woman compares her inside with other’s woman outside, then definitely the feelings of jealousy, less happiness, revenge and competition arise.

Another reason that why ladies have the thoughts of jealousy, revenge and competition is that women are emotionally very weak that they can’t see other woman praise or positive appraisal. They feel bad, competitive and even get jealous with their own gender.If, at work place, your supervisor through good words and deeds to your female colleague, definitely the feeling of envy raises in you and your blood become heat up.

Sometime, women become aggressive and wild to other women because of envy and jealousy. In mother in law and daughter in law relationship, the chances become higher as mother in law doesn’t bare her daughter in law and in return daughter in law considers her as an enemy and the scene go wild and unbearable. The passion for revenge is strong and sometimes overwhelming that both the women prepare to destroy each other.

Despite of the fact that women are more likely to have the thoughts of jealousy, revenge and competition, being a woman, you should be polite, humble to others and make ease for your own generation. To avoid these jealousy, revenge and unhealthy competition, you must:

• Focus on your own qualities
• Never compare yourself, your life and circumstance with other women
• Challenge the bad feelings and shift them with motivation and positive attitude
• Ignore the bad behavior and in return be good
• Keep silence if other woman are in anger or scoop fire to you as silence is the best revenge

Stick to these few tips and get rid of revenge, jealousy and competition for other women.